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I just wrapped up a two-week intensive (and fun) writing camp for girls 10-12. It’s a great age for girls: they are beginning to develop adult capabilities, yet they still retain the pure creative imagination and playfulness of childhood. I wanted to capture this quality and share with you what it was like, so I got my ex-documentary filmmaker husband Bill to shoot a little video at our final event, a reading at Flyleaf Books in Chapel Hill. The camp will meet monthly during the coming academic year.
It’s back. Last fall’s Powerful Narrative Writing Workshop was a hit, so we’re doing it again. And again, I’ll be collaborating with my husband, Bill Henderson, and again, the location will be Wildacres Retreat Center in the Blue Ridge Mountains of North Carolina. In October, you wouldn’t want to be anywhere else. Click here for more details.
My latest column in CHN’s long-running “My View” series.
Pawing through my purse at the gym a few months back, I couldn’t find my ear buds. No way was I going to get on a cross-trainer for 30 minutes of agony without them – I can’t stand exercising sans the Jon Stewart distraction, or CNN, or Cary Grant on Turner Classics.
My club sells headphones but I knew I had several pairs, somewhere, and didn’t want to buy more. Thinking about finking out and heading home, I happened to notice a woman in spandex shorts and an oversized T-shirt duck into a dark room. I’m not sure why, but I followed her. “What happens in here?” I asked.
“Spin class,” she said. “It’s the best.”
“You won’t find a better workout anywhere,” another woman said, as she unscrewed and raised the seat on a bike. “Just try it once.”
“How long is the class?” I asked.
“Only an hour and the time races by,” the first woman said. “The music’s great too.”
I shrugged. Why not give it a try? Over a dozen stationary bikes faced the front of the room. I picked one in a back corner. A woman showed me how to adjust the seat and handlebars. I hopped on, the first time in years I’d been on a bike.
I quit riding when the 10-speed I’d bought at a yard sale skidded out from under me and I fell hard and fast on some slippery dry leaves. The fall left a bruise from thigh to knee that looked like the map of Africa. I’m still swollen, ten years later. The impact also destroyed the steel-enforced wrist splint I was wearing (carpel tunnel issues) but mercifully spared my bones. I was also lucky that no cars were coming around the blind bend in the narrow road.
After that accident, I swore off bikes but missed riding. As a child, I lived on my bike and over the years owned several; most had only one gear, pedal brakes, and temperamental chains. They all had bells and baskets. My bike and my dog were my best friends. I rode all over the college town where I grew up – to local parks, along every campus path, and out a country road to the swimming pool. Nobody wore helmets and my parents had no idea, nor did they particularly care, where I was.
The instructor came in, turned off the dim lights, and turned on the loud music. She got on a bike facing the class. I started pedaling, like everybody else. I closed my eyes and imagined riding down my childhood driveway and heading up the street. I pretended to turn right at Lilac Lane, imagined the shrubs in their lavender glory, and headed past the Hughes place, where, most days, two stout golden retrievers bounded out to greet me.
Over Mick Jagger, the instructor was yelling at us to stand and climb, so I stood on my bike, increased the resistance, and took myself up that steep hill on Elm Road, the route I took home from an afternoon of weaving and racing along the sycamore-lined trails at Marquand Park.
Despite Lady Gaga, I heard the wind rustling the dune grass on that long ride I took allover Nantucket Island one summer day, decades ago. At every beach I stopped and swam, then jumped back on my rental Schwinn and let the salty warm air dry my skin.
I’ve been going to spin class now for months. I sprint, hover, and climb when told, but I’m never really there in that dark room with the loud music and humming fans. I’m a kid out on her bike. Forget the news. Forget ear buds.
Look. I’m riding down the home stretch – no hands!
• Finishing a new book about my experiences with the bereaved mothers' writing group I've led for the past 8 years. The book includes prompts, excerpts from the women's writing, and how-to tips on leading reflective writing workshops.
• Editing a client's spiritual memoir.
• Heading back to Boston several times this fall to work with another client on a history of his family's midwestern farm, homesteaded by forebears in the 1870s.
* 4 weekly workshops beginning again in September
• Meeting once a month with girls 10-12. This is a continuation of our recent successful Writing Camp for Girls.